Girl, dump the guy!

It's harsh but someone has to say it.
One of the most fascinating phenomena in life (as fascinating as the fact that sea cucumbers expel their internal organs when they get threatened) is that phenomena called: great-girl-falls-for-the-biggest-loser-in-the-whole-world. Before YOU get all paranoid, can I just say that I'm writing this without any particular person in mind; in fact, I want it to reach all those girls out there who thrive on the hope that they could salvage a single ounce of dignity and honor in those entities otherwise called losers.
I never really got this. When I talk to some of these unfortunate girls I hear some of the funniest reasons: like, "Yeah I'm sure he'll want to do something in life." or "You just don't get him." or "Give him some time." or "She's just his friend!", and the bestseller, "But I love him!"
Open your eyes girl, he's not worth it!
Seriously, why this happens is totally beyond my understanding. Sometimes, after having the aforementioned two or three hours endure with some lady friend talking about her (in)significant other, I try to come up with rational explanations behind such occurrence. When I say rational, I mean that which a person of common sense can accept as valid and highly-probable. Could it be that these girls just can't help but pity these guys, and mistake that pity for love? Or could it be that these girls simply want a raise of self-esteem so they'd constantly surround themselves with persons who, when they see, make them feel good about themselves? Or maybe it's just that these girls actually suffer from some sort of a semi-messianic complex, believing that it's their mission in life to save certain guys from total loserdom? I don't know about you, but there could be some truth behind these theories. Or are you just too blind to see it, or too defensive that you don't even want to open your eyes?
Girl, trite as it may seem, it's true: there are a lot of fish in the ocean (or lakes, or rivers, or seas).
Seriously, why settle? The other thing I don't understand is the unusually high level of permanency these girls have put into these relationships. No, I am not advocating casual relationships, but neither am I saying that you guys must get married (If I wanted to ruin your life, this is what I'd tell you...), all I'm saying is that there's absolutely no reason for you to invest so much time and emotions into a person who you yourself are not sure of! If you, the girlfriend, actually think the guy's a bit of a loser, imagine what the rest of the world thinks!? It's not that it's what other people think that should matter...well, who are we kidding? It does matter.
Definitely, my authority to dish out advice to people about relationships is questionable. Let me clarify this: in no way do I represent myself as someone knowledgeable, more so, an expert on relationships! But then, first, this is more of about me taking pre-emptive measures to prevent the eventual deterioration of your self-respect and dignity thanks to Mr.Wrong. There is absolutely nothing wrong with thinking about yourself. If the guy can't even make an effort to make things better for him, how far do you think would he go for you? Beyond the bedroom, I hope-but I doubt. You will not be put in a better situation with that guy; and isn't that what we strive for: better things and conditions? It's about YOU!
And second, my ears are practically bleeding from all those stories! (So yes, it's really still about ME!)
Girl, wake up! YOu can do better than that!
(Yes, I feel the need to put this into writing, so the next time someone asks me about it, I could just refer her [or him, if you know what I mean] to my blog, so as to save us both a couple or three hours of our precious time. Still, this is not the last you'll hear from me about this issue. Trust me.)